What about Disruptive Children?

How do you conduct worship with disruptive children?

We encourage all families to bring their children into the sanctuary.  Cooing babies don’t bother us one bit.  We recognize that some infants will need to be taken out for feedings, etc., and we have no problem with that.  however, we do not provide a nursery.  The Bible frequently mentions children in the context of the corporate gathering of God’s people (Deut. 31:12-13; Ezra 10:1; Matt. 18:1-5; 19:13-15; Eph. 6:1-4; Col. 3:20).  Moreover, we believe it is important for children to worship with their parents, and to be taught how to sit through the service .

 Nurseries tend to hide problems that need to be corrected.  Children who cannot sit through a service need training and discipline, not isolation.  Moreover, if these children cannot sit through the service, they are probably giving their parents fits at home (thus their desire to dump them off at the nursery on Sunday morning).  We patiently teach inexperienced families how to walk with their children through this process and it blesses their home, their marriage, their relationship with their children and the testimony of the church.